A Collection Of

Reflections

Every reflection begins the same way — with a feeling too large for a text message and too honest for small talk. This is where those feelings live: essays on love, longing, nostalgia, and the slow work of becoming. New reflections are added regularly. Come back after dark.

On Becoming

The quiet becoming that happens after everything falls apart.

Silhouette of a man standing before curtained windows overlooking a lit city

On Longing

For someone. For somewhere. For a version of yourself you haven't met yet.

The Last Time I Said Your Name Out Loud

There's a particular kind of silence that follows a name you used to say every day.

City skyline through a rain-streaked window at night

We Fall in Love with the Unexpected

We fall in love with the most unexpected people at the most unexpected time.

A man walking alone down a rain-soaked city street at night